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After-SchoolCheck-In

A free prompt card to help you keep the door open after school.

Children don't always tell us the big things first. Sometimes they test safety with small truths.

This one-page card gives you eight questions to choose from. A way to check in without pressure, an interrogation or a list of questions to get through.

Keep it on your phone, print it for the car, or tuck it behind the sun visor for those moments after school.

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Preview of the After-School Check-In card clipped to a car sun visor, with its question prompts deliberately blurred
Designed to be used, not just downloaded
WHAT YOU'RE GETTING

Simple by design.

A single card. Eight prompts. Something useful to keep within reach.

01

A simple car card

Eight gentle openings for the days when pickup is quiet, messy or rushed.

02

Made for real life

Use it in the car, at the kitchen bench, on the walk home or later that night.

03

Save it or print it

Keep the PDF on your phone or print a copy for somewhere you'll actually see it.

04

Connection, not pressure

Ask two or three. Not all eight. Let “nothing” be an answer, too.

Parent listening to a school-aged child talking in a parked car after school
The ordinary conversations are worth making room for.
HOW TO USE IT

Keep it where you'll need it.

Save it to your phone for the moments you don't have the words ready. Or print it and put it somewhere easy to reach.

  • In your phone's files
  • Behind the sun visor
  • In the glove box
  • On the fridge
  • Near the school bags
  • Inside a notebook

It's not about the perfect conversation. It's about keeping the door open.

WHY THIS MATTERS

The small things count.

Children don't always share something difficult in one clear conversation. Sometimes they offer a little, see how it's received and come back another day. How we respond in those ordinary moments can influence whether they feel able to speak again.

A few questions won't guarantee disclosure or safety. They can make more room for conversation.

FREE  /  ONE-PAGE PDF

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